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Duct Tape Debutante 1 by sandrasilvers
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Duct Tape Debutante 2 by sandrasilvers
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Duct Tape Debutante 2 :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 506 22
French Quartered 1 by sandrasilvers
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French Quartered 1 :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 133 7
Missing Bank Manager 1 by sandrasilvers
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Missing Bank Manager 1 :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 184 10
Missing Bank Manager 2 by sandrasilvers
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Missing Bank Manager 2 :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 104 3
Taken for a Ride 2 by sandrasilvers
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Taken for a Ride 2 :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 101 4
Taken for a Ride 1 by sandrasilvers
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Taken for a Ride 1 :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 275 15
What A Witch by sandrasilvers
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What A Witch :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 302 17
Blue Zentai Statue by sandrasilvers
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Blue Zentai Statue :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 557 31
Tied By A Girlfriend by sandrasilvers
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Tied By A Girlfriend :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 305 15
Full Service Massage by sandrasilvers
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Full Service Massage :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 350 14
Flying French Maid by sandrasilvers
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Flying French Maid :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 308 14
Vintage Wand Dreams 1 by sandrasilvers
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Vintage Wand Dreams 1 :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 57 3
Functional Statue by sandrasilvers
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Functional Statue :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 363 22
Barefoot in the garage by sandrasilvers
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Barefoot in the garage :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 349 12
Basement Strappado by sandrasilvers
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Basement Strappado :iconsandrasilvers:sandrasilvers 162 6

Favourites

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Interview with Shannon Sterling :iconrob66:Rob66 11 4
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Meet Sydney Hale! :iconrob66:Rob66 27 21
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An Interview with Sandra Silvers :iconrob66:Rob66 32 22
Sandra Silvers-1950's Style by Driver651
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Sandra Silvers-1950's Style :icondriver651:Driver651 81 20
Sandra Compromised - Color by Chromebinder
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Sandra Compromised - Color :iconchromebinder:Chromebinder 262 4
Sandra in Jungle Captive by taurus-comix
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Sandra in Jungle Captive :icontaurus-comix:taurus-comix 242 24
Slippery Sandra by Chromebinder
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Slippery Sandra :iconchromebinder:Chromebinder 117 6

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sandrasilvers
Sandra Silvers
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United States
This profile is WAY out-of-date. My fault :-)

Sorry I've been away from DeviantArt so long. Big happenings in my business and at my site (www.SandraSilvers.com) have kept me busy, but I'm back in the groove now!

Well, its true. I’m a real girl, who really likes being tied up. Simple as that. I’m not a model, or a fetish professional. When I was younger, I remember watching TV action or detective shows where the girlfriend of the hero or heroine of the story would be grabbed by the bad guy, and thoroughly tied up in a hideout and held for ransom, and knowing there was something there that was drawing me in. I would read stories or comic books in which the intrepid reporter would snoop too far and end up bound and gagged in various predicaments to await hero’s arrival. These thoughts and images filled my fantasies. The more I absorbed, the more I realized I wanted to be that hostage on the TV show, that reporter in the comic book.

I became an avid enthusiast of what in the bedroom is called “Love Bondage”. The kind of fun tying up where no one gets hurt, or humiliated or worse. But I knew there was something more I wanted. I have since coined a new term, “Loving Restraint”. Loving Restraint is love bondage taken one step further out of the bedroom. Its love bondage with a story, in a cool location, with various clothing/costumes (or no clothing/costumes :-)

Being tied up tightly, tenderly and creatively is what I craved, but I was constantly misunderstood. Trying my best to incorporate my interests into my relationships, I frequently scared partners away, because when I would ask them to tie me up they associated bondage with harder S&M-related fetishes, which they didn’t want to delve into. Or the opposite would happen, where a partner would think that because I was into being tied up, I must be into pain and S&M. I would never judge or cast aspersions on anyone’s fetishes (as long as they were consensual), but it was tough to explain, and still is, that I like to be tied up, but not hurt. You’d think it would be easy to explain, but trust me, with ever more extreme websites and modern “torture-porn” movies, its tough to get the point across.

So years ago, I was up one night trying to find some bondage erotica on-line to amuse myself with and realized that the Love Bondage/ Loving Restraint community was really under-represented on the web. With that in mind, I wanted to create something for actual Love Bondage / Loving Restraint enthusiasts. Either practitioners or those that hope to be practitioners.

Something or those who are looking to introduce their significant other to a world of incredible fantasy and fun. My goal with this site is to produce a learning tool that a husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, who is interested in tying up their significant other but doesn't know how to bring it up, whether out of fear that they might scare their lover or friend away or just tired of the mainstream associating what they want with S&M, can use to introduce the concept of bondage into their play.

This kind of play is something that when done right brings a couple closer together at all levels. Trusting someone enough to play in this manner is a sweet and sensual experience. For the tie-er, the emotional rush that comes from the responsibility and reality of knowing that their lover truly trusts them with their most valuable possession, their body. And for the tie-ee, the bliss of knowing that they are ultimately, truly cherished, in that they gave themselves over to someone, who when given that total control couldn't and wouldn't take advantage of their power. Once within this kind of trusting relationship, the couple can engage in a healthy fantasy life full of experiences they never imagined fueled by imagination they had yet never experienced.

Thank you for taking time to stop by. Enjoy!

XOXOXO –Sandra

Favourite photographer: Mike Argent
Favourite style of art: Photography
Operating System: OSX & Vista 64
MP3 player of choice: 120GB Ipod Video

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FootFetishGuy1961 Featured By Owner Apr 16, 2017
love your page, thanks for all the posts !
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CardiganBondagee Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2017
Happy Birthday!!
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DaRaginCajun Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2017  Student General Artist
happy birthday
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danielhudson560 Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2017
happy birthday I hope you get every thing you want and would like. I hope your well. I hope your friends and family will remember this very speical day of your birth. I hope your in good health and have a  merry spirits. I wish you a joyful day and I hope your day goes well and enjoy it to the full max. I look forward to hearing all about it soon. I hope your well too., Bye for now from DANNY

ps. All so have a nice weekend and a nice day and relaxing evening  I hope your Christmas goes well as well as a good one. i hope you enjoyed 2016 i wish you a awesome Happy new year. To you. I wish you all the best for and all of 16 and beyond I wish you the best for the future have a nice winter too. and i hope you did enjoyed your Halloween if your into that sort of thing I am totally in lol i hope you had a  nice valentines and i hope the family is well. did you have a nice easter too. and a nice summer as well as a good fall. i hope you have  a awesome 2017 and great day danny.
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79big Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2017
1 Message from Hungary. Happy Birthday Sandra :-). Boldog Születésnapot Kívánok Neked Sandra :-).
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BondoFox Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Happy birthday, kitten!
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pornwriter Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2017  Professional Writer
Happy Birthday; may you be blessed with a good year filled with fine friends, happy times, and great memories.

May your skies be clear, your animals friendly, your water pure, and your food tasty; may your air be clean, your bed soft, and your house filled with joy; may your nights be cool and your days warm; may your family be joyous and honorable, and may you live a long, full, and happy life.

This is a Jewish blessing, guaranteed to come true or your money back.
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Axel-Von-Wallenrod Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2017
happy birthday! XD hugz!
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LatexMarkus Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2017  Hobbyist Artist
Happy Birthday Heart Airborne Heart 
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pikablob Featured By Owner Apr 1, 2017
Happy Birthday! :)
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